Ways to manage other people’s reactions

If roles become reversed

Talk about changes to avoid misunderstandings; discuss ways to meet each other’s needs.

If your partner starts doing everything for you,  and this affects your sense of independence

Explain that it’s important for you to still feel involved at home and with the family, even if you can only do small tasks.

If everyone hides feelings to protect one another

Try to be open and honest and tell other people what you need most from them.

If others are overprotective or won’t leave you alone

Set boundaries to maintain your sense of independence.

If they refuse to believe the prognosis

Give family and friends time to come to terms with the prognosis. Ask if they’d like to speak to your health care team.

If they avoid talking about the diagnosis because they think they may upset you

Guide others on how much you want to talk about the diagnosis and whether you’re interested in discussing other topics.

If they ignore you or stay away

Make others feel more comfortable by letting them know you’re interested in keeping in touch.